And so it begins. The struggles of raising a teenager are heart wrenching, frustrating, and just simply aging me. But we press on day to day with love in our hearts. It seems we receive the brunt of their anger and are the main target when they have bad days and sometimes I get tired of being seen as mostly the bad guy. As luck and fortune would have it, my daughter and I were graced with a 24 hour, epic getaway for just the two of us. It was something we both really needed. Life seems to have disconnected us as of late, so this was a chance to hopefully bond and give our mother-daughter relationship that much needed boost.
Written by Marlene Lochkrin











This begins with Ana initially investing in making sure each Early Childhood Educator learns how to always focus on phrasing questions, answers, and any other communication shared with the children, in a very positive, proactive tone. “The way I want my staff to communicate with the children at Neverland is with the intent to always help them figure out what they should be doing and not what they shouldn’t be doing.” Ana pauses then continues, “Every child has the ability to find solutions to their problems and as Early Childhood Educators, it’s our job to help them find them and further, to be able to express their ideas and feelings to us and also, to their peers. Sure, this is more work and requires a greater commitment on the part of the educator, but it’s also far more rewarding in the end.” As part of the training process at Neverland Children’s Centre, everyone from the full time Early Childhood Educators to the Special Needs Educators and After School Care Workers spend time learning Ana’s language which comes while working alongside her. Here is where Ana shines as she happily jumps in and demonstrates the effectiveness of this language by modelling how to use it with the children in her own classrooms. In addition to her permanent staff in her daycare/extended preschool program, the staff in her School Aged Program are also seeing the value in this training.
being away for most of the year,” Ana beams. When asked what she is most proud of, Ana answers that she never gives up on any child. Now I see a whole new level of passion in Ana as the expression in her eyes deepens. “When caring for typical children, I consider that most behaviour is learnt. The exciting thing about this is that this means it can also be relearnt. When children see the positive results to behaving differently, it’s a strong motivator for future behavioural choices. So when a child is misbehaving, it’s an opportunity for us educators to help that child rethink their choices and come up with better ones for themselves. As a result, that child is also teaching the other children what the new outcome can be. It’s a win-win teaching method for everyone.