DiD A FAiRY DROP THiS?
This is the question six year old Oliver asked when he held up his big cousin’s ring for an inspection at a recent family dinner. Always precious and often profound are the questions our youngsters pose to us. This is why we have decided to include questions and answers like these from the youngest minds in our KiDS ViEWS features. Our very first story came to me unexpectedly, in the living room at my in-laws during family time. I couldn’t pass up on this opportunity, and here’s why. Soon afterwards, six year old Oliver had another darling question that he also posed to us adults in the room before dinner (me included). The more we thought about it, the more profound we realized my nephew’s question really was. So much so that I reached for a napkin to write it down. Here it is, along with a drawing he created about this afterwards.











This begins with Ana initially investing in making sure each Early Childhood Educator learns how to always focus on phrasing questions, answers, and any other communication shared with the children, in a very positive, proactive tone. “The way I want my staff to communicate with the children at Neverland is with the intent to always help them figure out what they should be doing and not what they shouldn’t be doing.” Ana pauses then continues, “Every child has the ability to find solutions to their problems and as Early Childhood Educators, it’s our job to help them find them and further, to be able to express their ideas and feelings to us and also, to their peers. Sure, this is more work and requires a greater commitment on the part of the educator, but it’s also far more rewarding in the end.” As part of the training process at Neverland Children’s Centre, everyone from the full time Early Childhood Educators to the Special Needs Educators and After School Care Workers spend time learning Ana’s language which comes while working alongside her. Here is where Ana shines as she happily jumps in and demonstrates the effectiveness of this language by modelling how to use it with the children in her own classrooms. In addition to her permanent staff in her daycare/extended preschool program, the staff in her School Aged Program are also seeing the value in this training.
being away for most of the year,” Ana beams. When asked what she is most proud of, Ana answers that she never gives up on any child. Now I see a whole new level of passion in Ana as the expression in her eyes deepens. “When caring for typical children, I consider that most behaviour is learnt. The exciting thing about this is that this means it can also be relearnt. When children see the positive results to behaving differently, it’s a strong motivator for future behavioural choices. So when a child is misbehaving, it’s an opportunity for us educators to help that child rethink their choices and come up with better ones for themselves. As a result, that child is also teaching the other children what the new outcome can be. It’s a win-win teaching method for everyone.